Intimacy coaching information

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Reaching out requires courage. Its actually the practical thing to do when one needs expert advise in order to move forward. Most therapists are not trained to discuss and provide insights into intimacy concerns. 

Having studied human sexuality and written about it, I've concluded that many concerns don't require deep analysis. They simply need to be shared with someone they trust. Someone who has carefully thought about  human desires and the variety of complications which may arise.  

Sexual desires stem from combinations of subconscious thoughts and experiences.  It isn't important, and it's impossible to identity them all. What matters is what is happening now.  

When sexual conflicts are repressed a person is more likely to an unhealthy outlet.  Many of these choices- regular porn viewing, escort services including videocams, are destructive and expensive. The heaviest price one pays is his integrity.  This is a slippery slope to the demise of a soul that once embraced life. Instead, life becomes a form of sleep walking. 

Where there is clarity and focus there is more vitality. 

Self awareness in all aspects of life is an investment in your well being.  Having a solid foundation with regard to your expectations is vital for any relationship.  It's just as important if you choose to remain relationship free.  

My insights have helped many men to openly discuss  their deepest and darkest thoughts and feel heard for the very first time.  Most of what may be shaming a person is not an uncommon preoccupation.  Men may be worried about there heterosexuality if they have a fantasy involving another man.   This need not be distressful. 

Sexuality is irrational.  It's not worth trying to analyze it.  It is very important to accept that certain thoughts do occur from time to time, but they are nothing to be alarmed about.  The power of these thoughts is greatly reduced when you share them to receive insights and support.

Confusion is the culprit to indecision. A compassionate conversation can end this looping of the mind.

Modern life is complicated enough without having to revisit the same issue over and over.  Concerns which are faced and dealth with save an enourmous amount of time.  Who has time to hold onto anything that is robbing them from the present!?  

The present requires so much in and of itself!  To burden oneself with any more stuff is to invite imbalance and illness.

 "The truth will set you free" is applicable in such scenerios where guilt, shame and quiet despair are taking center stage.  

Learning and moving forward costs much less than staying stuck.  You may be suffering from the loneliness that comes from being in a relationship that actually ended years ago.  

You may be in a sexless marriage and just having a conversation is enough to ease the situation.  

It isn't necessary to do anything drastic in order to feel better. But anxiety is only relieved when taking some action.

When leaving a relationship is the best alternative it's good to have guidance and support.  There are both emotional and practical steps that must be taken for things to proceed even in the most difficult of situations.  I can say from experience that having a well thought out plan is the best way to manage and keep a situation contained.  

As a living organism we have a subtle body that is influenced by other thoughts, emotions, relationships, food, and in essence every aspect of life.  It is composed of energy centers called chakras. These centers acts like vortexes constantly spinning as they communicate with our internal and external world. 

When I work with someone I consider it the basis for determining blockages in these chakras.  In order to function in optimal health the energy body must be addressed. This is where Western medicine has all but failed. Returning to this ancient knowledge provides holistic practitioners with the tools to address concerns in a unique way.

I encourage you to find out more about how the energy body functions and realize that as a human being there is much more to you than a physical body. That you have a magnetic field eminating outwards of three to six feet. That it is influenced constantly by your thoughts and relationships. 

Energy medicine is a new frontier for Westerners.  It is long overdue since it is the very essence of our beingness. 

It isn't necessary to have a complete understanding of it to know that blocks occur and unless they are cleared illness is the most likely result.  It may show up as something physical like erectile dysfunction. It may show up as cancer. Fear is a common indicatior of blockages.  

Maintaining a healthy energy body involves a journey into self-awareness in all forms. It involves training one's mind to discard negative thinking patterns. It involves discernment in relationships and discernment about any influence such as entertainment and work environments. It is worth taking time to receive an evaluation of your energy body which is possible with the questionairre I use for coaching. 

I maintain a healthy energy body with daily kundalini yoga and meditation. I allow only positive relationships with others and with the choices I make each and every day about what I eat and how I spend my time. I am vigilant about external influences such as fear-based news and entertainment.  Pop culture is a constant deluge in low vibrating influences. One has to consider living counter-culture if they are to draw strength from the true live enhancing influence of a healthy energy body.